"Much of how we do things comes from how our parents did them. I did my best but didn't know enough to make it better. I hope this collection of Listening to Children booklets gives you insights into the mistakes I made and assists you in those areas where being a mom is so hard.
I love you,
Mom"

Marli Shoop
in a note to her daughter

Raising one child is challenging in our fast-paced and adult-oriented society. Raising more than one child brings added joys, and added struggles for peace and cooperation. Wether you are struggling with kids who fight, or just hoping we can all get along, you can join Patty and The Twin Coach, Gina Osher for ideas and support.

Gina says, "I simply write about parenting from the perspective of a mom of twins. I don't have all the answers, but I write about learning to understand my own behavior and triggers so that I continue to become a more mindful, connected and joyful parent. 

I'm really good at empathizing and connecting with my kids. I'm less good at controlling my stress and anxiety. I'm occasionally neurotic and rigid. I'm always sensitive to how my behavior affects others. I love my family with all my heart and sometimes fall apart when I don't feel I am being the best mother I can be."