YOUR VIDEO: Spoiled Outing Stuff as Special Time Ends
Upset when the timer goes off can feel like they've spoiled your outing together. It's a signal that feelings are bubbling up and they are asking for help. We can start to see upset – even in good times – as a signal for help.
YOUR ARTICLE: Why Do My Kids Cry After We Have Good Fun
Your warm 100% attention during Special Time, can invite the feelings. Leave a buffer of time to listen to their upset, so they can offload pent up feelings while you stay and offer support.
Fridge List: Here are more ways your child might be signaling for help, in addition to the Spoiled Outing
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