When you come across this introduction, I believe it is a form of connection and destiny.
I was born in Leshan, Sichuan, China—a city famous for the Leshan Giant Buddha, the world’s largest stone-carved Buddha statue. I have lived in Beijing (China), Palo Alto (California, USA), and now Portland (Oregon, USA).
I am a mother of two boys. In 2018, I joined ParentLab.com, where I began researching, exploring, and experiencing various programs that support parenting and personal healing. Through this journey, I encountered “Hand in Hand” and started practicing “Listening.” Unlike many programs developed in scientific laboratories, this one is remarkably simple yet profound, requiring total openness to truly experience it.
As I delved deeper into this practice, I increasingly felt the power of listening. It allowed me to truly see my children’s development and needs, strengthening our bond in ways I had never imagined. At the same time, it helped me better understand myself, heal deeply through profound listening, and rediscover my inner strength—as if I had been reborn.
Listening is like a double-edged sword:
- On one hand, it constantly reflects and heals our own inner wounds.
- On the other hand, it enables us to deeply understand others and empower them.
The transformative impact of listening inspired me to bring this simple yet powerful tool to more parents, especially Chinese parents who do not speak English. This led me to pursue and obtain a certification as a Listening Instructor. Every time I work with parents, I am deeply moved.
- On one hand, many parents feel overwhelmed and challenged by daily parenting struggles. Raising children often feels like an invisible burden, leaving little space to truly enjoy the love and joy they bring.
- On the other hand, I continually witness the profound and selfless love that parents hold for their children deep within.
Through listening, I hope every parent can rediscover the joy and pride of parenthood.
Currently, I work as an independent healing practitioner, creating a space of love in my home and for those who cross paths with me. I believe that when a person is in a safe, nurturing, and loving environment, they have the opportunity to truly see themselves, find answers to their challenges, clear away confusion, and reconnect with the wisdom and love within their own heart—the light that guides us forward.
Beyond listening, I practice spiritual and energetic healing practices, an attuned, earth-based lifestyle, and have begun training in anthroposophic art therapy.
In my daily life, I enjoy gardening, cooking healthy food, making crafts, organizing and upcycling. To me, all aspects of life are a form of art. I aspire to reduce my impact on the Earth, return to nature, and protect the environment. I am on a journey to turn my life into my most beautiful work of art.
I look forward to meeting you! You can connect with me via WeChat or email.
Email：[email protected]
Wechat：hxei918
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你好，我是禾西。当你看到我的这个介绍时，我想这也是一种缘分和连接。我的家乡在中国四川乐山，一个以“乐山大佛”——“世界上最大的石雕大佛”而闻名的城市。我曾经住在北京（中国），Palo Alto（加利福尼亚州，美国），现在住在波特兰（俄勒冈州，美国）。
我是两个男孩的妈妈。我在2018年加入了Parentlab.com，开始调研、研究和体验了许多支持父母工作以及个人疗愈的项目。在这个过程中，我遇到了“Hand in Hand”并开始体验“Listening”。它与其他在科学实验室里被创造出来的项目有一个很大的不同，那就是它的大道至简，需要全然的开放去体验。随着体验的加深，我越来越体会到“倾听”的力量。它不仅让我更加真正地看见孩子的发展和需要，使我与孩子的关系越来越亲密；也让我越来越多地了解自己，并开始通过深度倾听疗愈自己，找到内在的力量，也让我自己感觉获得了一次重生。倾听是一把双刃剑，一面让你不断地照见和修复自己的内在；一面让你深入地理解他人并以此给予他人无限的力量。
伴随着倾听带来的改变，我越来越希望可以把这个大道至简的工具带给更多的家长，特别是那些不会说英语的中国家长，因此我参加并获得了倾听导师的认证。每次与家长一起工作时，我都非常感动和感触。一方面我们又被一些日常的养育问题所困扰和挑战，好像养育成为了一种无形的压力和负担，而我们已经很少有机会去体会孩子带给我们的爱以及在养育中的乐趣和喜悦了；另一方面我不断深刻体会到作为家长在内在深处对孩子无私的深刻的爱。希望通过倾听，可以让每一位家长重新找到为人父母的乐趣和骄傲。
我现在是一名自由的疗愈师，享受着在自己的家园创造爱的空间，也开放地为有缘相遇的人创造一个爱的空间，我相信每个人在一种安全、滋养和爱的空间中就有机会真正看见自己，找到解决问题的答案，掀开迷雾，感受到自己心中原本的智慧和爱，那是引领我们前行的光。
除了倾听，我也是大手印，安东尼饮食疗愈，阿纳丝塔夏（Анастасия）的祖传家园的修行和实践者；2024年开始，我开始参加瑞典Jarna人智学艺术疗愈的三年培训项目。
日常，我喜欢种花种草，做健康的食物，做手工，收纳整理回收，一切和生活相关的艺术都是我的爱，我期待减少对地球的消耗，回归自然，保护环境，我正在享受着把生活创造成我最美的艺术品。
期待和你的相遇，你可以通过微信或者邮箱和我建立联系。