How Do You Get Out from Under Parent Guilt?
We ardently wish we could make a perfect life for our children. Unfortunately, life doesn’t work that way.
Four Steps To Resolve A Child’s Big Fears
Many children are afraid of visits to the doctor, but my daughter was TERRIFIED. She’d had a difficult birth and was in the NICU for four days; perhaps those early experiences had stayed with her.
Why I Let My Child Hit During Her Upsets
“My daughter, who is seven, always wanted to sleep in my bed. She went through a period of crying every night about sleeping alone. I listened to her cry each time, hoping it was doing
A Reconnect Helps When Kids Move Offtrack On the Holidays
I’d been longing to go for some walks over Christmas. We had one planned on Christmas day an hour before we were due to have lunch with my partner’s family. The first ten minutes went
Five Games to Help with Bedtime Refusal
Laughter releases the tensions of the day and lets children relax and feel connected to you. And it’s way more fun than a power struggle! Download this list of quick games to help when your
Is My Stress Affecting My Child?
Dear Hand in Hand, There has been a lot going on in my life at the moment that I’m finding hard to deal with. I’m pregnant, not sleeping and my father recently passed away. Now
My Child Calls Me “Mean Mom.” What Should I Do?
It’s a Monday morning, everyone is grumpy, and your child does not want to get out of bed. “You’re so mean!” your child shouts as you tell her it’s time to get up. “I hate
Why Does Parenting Feel So Hard?
Surely not one of us reading this set out thinking that parenting would be a breeze? We hear about sleep deprivation from the moment we announce that we are becoming parents. We know they’ll be
Tantrums: Should I Talk About Them With My Child?
Dear Hand in Hand I’ve worked really hard to support my daughter when she cries recently. When I hold her and tell her I’m listening she does come to a point when her tears clear,
How Play Helped When My Child Got Scared At Bedtime
My 6-year-old recently asked me to sleep next to her at bedtime. It was unusual because she usually has no problems going to sleep by herself. I thought that maybe she needed some connection time
3 of the Best Ways For Kids to Play
As they move from play dough to playground and from dress up to dodgeball, it may seem like our children spend their whole day playing. And that’s great. But some of the best ways to
Why Does My Child Always Want Mom?
Our son is nearly three years old. He still goes through some separation anxiety when he’s without his mom. We usually put him to bed together, but the other night, my wife needed a break.
Complaining Kids? Try This One Thing To Stop The Whining
One day, we were traveling by car six about hours away from our home town. I got food for the kids so they wouldn’t feel hungry during the ride, and they were soon tucking in.
Hold The Limit, Honor the Struggle: Homework Battles and How to Help
It’s the beginning of the school year, and as surely as leaves will drop, so will the homework. Pages and pages of it. Sometimes whole binders worth. Homework can be the source of many arguments,
Why Our Dog’s Gift To Us In Dying Was Closeness
After 28 years of being together, my husband and I divorced. My son and two daughters were in their teens. The divorce and the years leading up to it had been very painful for each
When I Couldn’t Stop Yelling
I was excited to become a mother, but I didn’t have any idea what I was in for. I thought that parenting would be lots of love and gently guiding my child. I thought that
Surprise! Holiday Meltdowns Are Actually A Good Thing
Your child will have big feelings when a special holiday or birthday comes up. It’s one of the phenomena you can set your clock by. We parents wish the universe were governed by forces
Parenting As A Team Part Three: When to Invest, When to Deflect
A Guest Post from Megha Mawandia Yesterday we introduced Step Two: Using Humor to Diffuse Tension. Today we look at when to explain your parenting approach in a bid to get your values supported, and