How To Reassure Your Child During a Melt Down
Sunday, October 18 2009
Our children need us to be open to the intensity and the power of the feelings they are having. They need us to fully hear how hard it is.
Tag: parent-child connectedness
Three Connection Games to Play with Your Child and A New Baby
Tuesday, October 13 2009
Recently in our family we’ve had a new baby. That’s brought all sorts of adjustments, of course, for my son. There are a few “playlistening” ideas that have been helpful, that others may find useful too:
Dad Helps with a Dinnertime Fight Between Brother and Sister
Thursday, October 8 2009
I didn’t make him do it, but I didn’t give up on the idea that he COULD do it.
A Grandma Listens
Monday, October 5 2009
The Daddy was trying to talk his daughter out of the tantrum, but our teacher kept gently reminding him that this was exactly what his little girl needed to do, and that she was smart to work on her feelings so vigorously.
One Dad Supports Another
Tuesday, September 29 2009
“You know, my son is driving me absolutely crazy. He whines and whines and I just go up the wall. Sometimes I have to leave the room, ’cause I don’t want to hurt him and I’m going nuts. I just leave him alone when he does that.”
A Teacher Reaches Out
Tuesday, September 22 2009
I just told them both that I was there for them and that it was okay to cry.
Let’s Connect!
Friday, September 18 2009
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Throwing Food, Not Tantrums
Tuesday, September 15 2009
After dinner, I remembered the Hand in Hand idea of allowing “taboo” things during Special Time.
The Yellow Car
Saturday, September 5 2009
Our older son tore it out of his brother’s hands and said that he was playing with it.
Helping a Parent Understand her Child
Tuesday, September 1 2009
She had thought if her little girl was angry, that she was being ungrateful or inconsiderate or something like that.
Helping a Child With Guilt and Fear
Thursday, August 27 2009
I sensed that she was being triggered by the memory of her sister’s serious fall. I followed her to her room, where she was hiding in the closet. I went in there to do Staylistening, but she wouldn’t look at me and wasn’t communicative.
Playful Parenting: The Vigorous Snuggle
Sunday, August 23 2009
When one reasonable request doesn’t get through to our children, it’s time for an entirely new tactic. We propose the vigorous snuggle!
Special Time Before Homework
Tuesday, August 18 2009
I was very proud of her transition, and I felt like Special Time had really smoothed things in a way that made us both very pleased.
Defusing Diaper Changing
Saturday, August 15 2009
She kept forcefully resisting me when I would try to get her lie her down on her changing pad.
Your Parenting Story Here
Saturday, August 8 2009
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Helping a Child with Separation at a Sleepover
Tuesday, August 4 2009
Children need to feel their feelings and share them with a caring adult. And then they can relax and feel confident and safe.
The Healing Power of Parenting
Thursday, July 30 2009
Why was I plagued by thoughts of my less-than-ideal childhood when I should be enjoying my daughter’s happy one?
“I’ll Help You Wait” Makes a Friendship Possible
Monday, July 27 2009
She took in my answer, and began to scream.