Playful Parenting: The Vigorous Snuggle
When one reasonable request doesn’t get through to our children, it’s time for an entirely new tactic. We propose the vigorous snuggle!
When one reasonable request doesn’t get through to our children, it’s time for an entirely new tactic. We propose the vigorous snuggle!
Children need to feel their feelings and share them with a caring adult. And then they can relax and feel confident and safe.
She took in my answer, and began to scream.
I decided to not have any further agenda of my own and sat beside him, fully attentive, until time was up.
It is so nice to see her leaving with a smile instead of sadness.
This whole situation demonstrates so clearly how the listening tools in Parenting by Connection all work together.
He went on for a couple of minutes vividly explaining the scene to me.
It hadn’t occurred to me that such a small amount of time would be useful for my child, but it certainly seemed worth a try.