Hand in Hand Parenting

Parent Club Community

What if you knew how to transform your child’s behavior today… and every day?

The Parent Club Community gives you direct access to Hand in Hand Instructors every single day so you can get direct, personalised support for any behavior you are struggling to manage. 

You’ll get advice on how to use the Hand in Hand tools specifically in your situation and apply them with thoughtfulness and compassion, in a way that nurtures your relationship with your child.

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Ever doubted your parenting?

Parenting with connection makes so much sense it feels like it should be second-nature...
So why isn't it?

When your child starts to tantrum, or you lose your temper while breaking up another sibling battle it’s easy to feel like things are failing apart.  

If you go to sleep determined to do things differently tomorrow and then find yourself yelling 10 minutes after you’ve woken up, don’t lose heart.

The Parent Club Community brings you closer to being the parent you want to be by finding support in others, and exploring the ways you can nurture self-regulation, compassion and connection in your family.  No one is perfect so we also have support for repairing after those whoops and ouch moments.

With Hand in Hand Instructors On Call...

Here's what life can look like

When you use Hand in Hand parenting tools consistently and in alignment with your family's needs

Easier Mornings

While we can't promise the fantasy experience of waking up to a calm and harmonious household, where mornings flow beautifully through breakfast and getting out the door, we can share tools that will definitely get you closer and help you tailor them to your specific family needs. The Parent Club Community is where you come to fill up your parenting toolbox as well as your own capacity to use the tools.

Emotional Regulation

Growing a healthy emotional system is a life-long experience. We can help you give your child a strong foundation in emotional understanding and regulation. Because we're all human this won't erase tantrums and meltdowns (important stress relief valves!) but it will reduce the frequency and severity over time because we wonk together to find the triggers for those explosions and melt downs and we meet the underlying need. Your child (and you!) develops practices to express their emotions in a healthy way, learn to manage their feelings and cope with challenges effectively.

Smoother Transitions

Learn tried and true practices to get ahead of transition friction and resistance in situations such as leaving the park or ending playtime and getting out the door. These can happen more seamlessly because you infuse connection and laughter and listening into the transition. Daily routines are so much smoother with these tools and the overall emotional health improvements you'll find with these tools and this support.

Deep Connection

By resolving power struggles and tantrums in a supportive and empathetic way, you build a foundation of trust and connection that will grow over the course of this lifelong relationship. Because you customize these tools for your unique family needs, they grow and adapt with you. The support you find in the Parent Club Community supports that tailoring process.

What's Inside the Parent Club Community?

Expert On-Demand Coaching

Our Community Guides provide daily coaching with individualized support and action steps for whatever challenge you are facing.

Regular Live Calls

We schedule at least three calls with instructors and watch parties for all Hand in Hand workshops and webinars.

Setting Limits Workshop

Join like-minded parents and Hand in Hand Instructors in a group to workshop our most popular online class.

Listening Time Link Up

Whether you want help in the moment or a long-term partner

Private Vent Space

Shake off anger, sadness & frustration so that you can make space for peace and clarity.

Resource Library

Includes past talks, classes, printouts, and reading on 20 subjects ranging from play ideas, help for aggression, sibling rivalry and parent anger.

Monthly Focus

Every month join us for live calls, challenges and guidance on

25% Off Classes

Whether you want help handling aggression, sleep or to get started with Listening Partnerships we have a class. Browse them from your Parent Club Community dashboard and enjoy 25% off when you buy. 

What Others Say...

Parents Feel Welcomed & Accepted

"Just want to thank you for the incredibly respectful way you have interacted with me and for all the information and resources you have shared. I'm really happy to have found a place where I feel welcomed and accepted."
"I just realized that this weekend we have had so many good moments. We've shared meals together easily, we've been out and about in our community, in the fresh air. It's all paying off - here we are starting a new week feeling connected and attuned."
"Amazed about the breakthrough I had with my 4-year-old and her medication. She's been refusing to take it but I remembered Patty's experience and tried to do the same, quietly bringing the limit. Today she took it no problem! This works!

Imagine how good it would feel if you had

Access to Instructors
Whenever You Need...

With Parent Club Community instructors on call 24/7, 365 days a year (and yes that includes the holidays), plus live sessions, on-demand classes, and a warm and vibrant community, you’ll have all the tools and support you need to see results like these:

With this in place

Parenting feels easier

Join the Parent Club Community today...

...and put joy back into parenting

Pay Monthly

$24.99/month
  • Free Two Week Trial

Plus these extra trainings:

When you join the Parent Club Community, you also get these bonuses to help you get the most out of the Hand in Hand approach.

Bonus 1

Setting Limits & Building Cooperation

Your step-by-step guide to setting loving limits effectively, using Hand in Hand’s 3-part strategy. In video sessions, Patty Wipfler shows you how to understand the right moment to set a limit, words to say, and how to hold the limit when a child resists. Setting Limits this way brings results while building connection. 

Usual Price $ 55

Online class for parents called Setting Limits and Building Cooperation

Bonus 2

Hand in Hand Basics: 5 Tools

New to Hand in Hand or just need a refresh? Get a complete guide to each Hand in Hand Listening Tool, with instructions on how to use each tool and how to tweak them for different situations. Return to them again and again whenever you need inspiration or guidance. 

Usual Price $15

Hand in Hand's five tools basics class

Bonus 3

Complete Set: Hand in Hand Listening Guides

Listening to Children helps you crack the code of children’s emotions. The set includes 9 guides:How Children’s Emotions Work, Special Time, Tantrums & Indignation, Crying, Playlistening, Reaching For Your Angry Child, Healing Children’s Fears, Setting Limits with Young Children & Listening Partnerships for Parents.

Usual Price $29

Listening To Children Hand in Hand Parenting Guides

Add in one extra gift

Annual Membership Bonus

Consult Call With Kathy Gordon

Join the Parent Club Community‘s Head Moderator Kathy for a free consult call and get answers and an action plan for any parenting issue you’d like help with right now.

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Pay Monthly

$24.99/month
  • Free Two Week Trial

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