“I hate you!” “You are so mean!” “You don’t love me!” A kick, as you attempt to draw close and maintain some level of order. A scratch, as you reach out to hug. Hitting and a screaming battle as you order … Continue reading
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One Way to Set a Limit With an Aggressive Child
Hand in Hand’s Laura Minnigerode uses a special limit setting tool called a vigorous snuggle with a child that scratches and grabs. The warmth and smiles she uses while saying “no,” diffuses anger and fosters connection. Here’s how to set a limit with affection even when a child has aggression.
Little Ones Have Big Feelings
Help! My 5 year old seems to be out of control these days. He throws toys, he’s very physical with me and our nanny, hitting us (and friends) as hard as can. He’ll be sweet one minute, but when when … Continue reading
10 Minutes A Day Can Stop Kids From Hitting
Dear Hand in Hand, My 5 year old son keeps hitting his friend and is disrespectful to people, how can I fix this? I am a stay at home mom, my husband is gone months at a time for work … Continue reading
My Child Solves a Bully Problem
Apparently, a few of the “older” kids are being very aggressive towards the younger children, hitting them and pushing them around.
Biting, Pushing, Pulling Hair – Helping Children with Aggression
Has your child ever lashed out and hurt someone? Has another aggressive child ever bothered him?
Working with Aggressive Behavior
A few days later I noticed there had been no aggressive behavior since the day of the big cry.
Using Listening Tools at Home and at School
Later that day, when, once again, he did not get the chair he wanted, he STARTED to reach out and hit, but with pause, he stopped, and at the suggestion of another teacher to sit in another chair, he complied!
I’ll Help You Wait
I have been working on how to wait when someone else has something my son wants. It all started with hoping to teach my son how to share and play with other kids without my son hitting. Someone would have something he wanted or other way around. So, I have learned to stay close to help him during these times and hold the limit.
Staylistening Ends A History of Grabbing
As soon as another child would begin playing with a toy, he would come over and either hit the child or grab the toy away.
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